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Advantages of having a Close Family Relationship


Yesterday my nephew visit our house and was so happy telling my mom his grandmother that "I miss this place" because he was not able to go for about 3 months. We did a lot of things that really make us and him happy like playing cars, rolling the broken car's wheel outside and lastly reading a book with many stories. One of the stories is about an eagle, their difference with other birds, their courtship stage, and their family, the father and mother eagle participate in raising the baby eagle from childhood, training the baby eagle to fly and up to the time the baby eagle flies alone. I love the story and of course i love my nephew's curiosity seeing his eyes full of glow and keeps on asking me what's next as well as the words he didn't know like thorns, vultures and a lot more.

The eagle family teach us an important value of teamwork. Here are some advantages of having close family ties:

  1.  High self confidence - children having a close relationship with their parents more likely get a high self esteem or confidence. S/he can face everybody surrounding the house, school and a lot more. S/he can talk with a smile in face to the people surrounding him/her. Being at ease when s/he meet people.  
  2. Discipline is easily taught by parents to their children - you can easily observe your child's attitude being a hands on mom or dad and discipline him or her whenever he or she does a mistake. Being disciplined you can ensure that your child will become a morally upright person someday.
  3.  Communication is open to all parties - for example your child, s/he can talk easily with his or her parents whenever problems arise. As a family communication is essential not only for the couples but also for the children who loves getting stories from their mom and dad as well as let their problems be let out for a while.

How to Succeed on your Marriage Financial Issues


Live free of debt - it should be a rule that every month your debts are fully paid, never ever apply on a loan that you cannot guarantee to pay. It will usually be a quarrel between couples if you've got many debts and he or she will need to pay for it.


You need to keep those joint and separate bank accounts - as a couple you need to keep those investments, checking and saving accounts. However its also necessary to have your own credit card, bank and retirement accounts. This will be a key, mostly for a woman. To have your accounts will enable you for an established record for you, if things will turn bad. An electric and phone bill in your name will also be necessary. Independence financially.

You travel together - as a couple you travel for the purpose of business as well as spend or visit some time with your friends and family, it will be a key that as a couple that you allow once per week that its your travel date. You can spend your money in order to have a time for each other and share some experiences, which is really priceless. 

Positive Thinking for your Life's Well-Being


Nobody can prevent every negative emotions in our life and it will not be realistic if you think you'll be able or can. However those happiest individuals might somehow be aware of buffering this feelings by letting life's unavoidable tragedies to mess up the nice stuff. These people might be the healthy people too. There are proven theories that you'll develop your own physical well-being by varying the style you feel and think regarding your own life.



The advices on always keeping the optimistic view of life, if you'd like to become fit sounds too fuzzy and warm, yet its very unlikely. In fact, there are real evidences that proves your own attitude in life might be able to change your well-being and speed up the recovery in serious cases or ailments. There are positive attitudes, they are very helpful and mostly of these are hope, optimism as well as, feelings that you've got an effect in your life


Be Optimistic

Nobody really know why or how an optimistic attitude really helps a person to recover in sickness faster or in coping better if they're in a major type of disease - those diseases like AIDS, cardiovascular disease and cancer. But rising proofs suggest that the effects might be because of the power of the mind over your immune system. A person who is optimistic are knowledgeable of the negative things going all over this world. And simply decide on thinking positive about life.


An optimistic person generally got lesser stress, s/he recovers faster when s/he is sick. Thinking positively may be able to help in boosting your immune system as well as lower your stress level. If you keep on thinking those bad things about life it seems that you will be in so many stresses, the internal type of stress.

There are researchers who thought that being negative might stress out a person, boosting the damaging stress hormones level in the bloodstream. Obviously, it seems probable that to have an optimistic thinking towards life will make you take care of your own health. It's likely that you can attract more people to you as well as hold them - by itself might boost up your own health.

Importance of Family Conversations

My mom is a teacher and she is superb in her work. I love the times of our conversations even if I'm not her student i learned so much from her. She's a management professor, her subjects run from different types of management and basic marketing.



I really love to talk to her so i keep on reading the essays of her students or the books that she will be discussing the next day. As for one instance, she ask me "do you agree with the statement that communication changes with the development and utilization of technologies? Discuss" Well i told her yes i agree because the type of communications before just like a telephone, fax, the telegraph, telegram as well as letter writings gave a hard time for people to deliver documents, there are few residences who have telephones and you need to pay for it, etc... while today there is a mobile phone, laptop, PDA, and Tablet computer that features electronic mails or e-mails, instant messengers from Yahoo, Google, Aim and a lot more, as well as the web camera or webcam. I told her, Mom these features are so easy to use for business managers or individuals to communicate face to face even if they are in a distant land through webcam or instant messengers.  Talks like that are so precious to me because discussing things like that enhance my mind as well as my mom is grateful with my ideas.




Reading and comment about the article you've read with her becomes a fruitful conversation for hours, i just hope i can do that also with my older brother and deceased dad.

  1. Family is important and communicating with one another can really make you happy, learn so much from each ideas, opinions and principles too. I love my family, they mean so much to me if time can go back i would like to see the happiness of my whole family. There's no time machine that will let you go back in the past.
  2. You will be able to learn and be aware of the things you didn't know about them.
  3. Happiness comes from loving one another, so in your heart communication gives you happy thoughts and learn you to love them fully.

Bring Up Your Child to be Morally Upright




There are parents, which includes single parents, they raise a morally upright, disciplined children successfully entering the adult stage wherein parents fear most often. Why does these families became successful while there are few percentages in the population around the globe that are failures in marriages and in children raising?

What kind of raising did these parents  do for their child? And the important thing is, how will you help in assisting your child for this travel to maturity? Every children needs a mother and father by their side, God is revealing that He's aiming for parents to stay married with one another forever, and there are a lot of researches that proves a child with those type of union are better off than a child who grow up in a house with only one parent.

So how will you bring up a morally upright child?

  1.  As parents our samples at home really influence them - a child is quick in noticing discrepancies, for example, a child must not keep on playing until midnight its important for them to sleep early. It will become different when a child see they're parents who keep on sleeping at around 1 or 1:30 am already.
  2. Quality bonding time with their mother or father - talking with their mom or dad reveals they're thoughts and let them ask for advices. A smart parent must do everything to hear out their child's thoughts and they need to respond with love.
  3. Parents discipline their child through encouragement - discipline and punishment are different, there are people who assume this is similar. Discipline simply trains your child to be correct, in order to perfect and shape their moral traits and mental faculties. There are discipline who also include punishment, they are tools for disciplining that can be used for training a child. Further more, discipline includes both corrective and encouraging elements.



What is the Importance of Family Life


People are considered successful if s/he have a very happy family. Family, it is essential to everybody in this world. There's a quoted saying that "Your family is not the one whose blood run through your veins. It's only the people who cares about you and you cares about them too." Every person got a unique and different family within his or her heart. The deep responsibility that a family play, its communication as well as the support will be the main cause as to why a family is important.

Do you ponder as to why you are so lucky? There are people in this world who believed that talents and successes in life are the reasons they're so lucky. But, i do believe that to have a family that i can call my own and they keep on supporting me is the reason of luck in my life.

I read from a book of fables that Eagles are birds who participates in raising their family, which means the mother and father help each other in protecting their young one's, love and train them in the end when they saw their child fit for fly training. It's nice to see this family attaining their objectives and dreams, because as family each one has responsibility and roles and they live to it. As for people like us we have a home where love abides and you can kiss someone goodnight or meaning, you can ask for advice when you've got problems and the next day there's peace in your heart. They support as well as care a lot even if I'm already an adult, help in reaching my aims that I've planned, emphasizes my talents even if I know or not I've got talents.

In all odds and ifs a family is there even if you've got deficiencies, even if people bullied, intimidate and/or frightened you, they will still be around and love you. A family doesn't stop to believe with you and your talents. Your family's love strengthen you in facing your toughest battles. Help in knowing how you can write, read and learn many things.

As a family they'll be supporting messages like this:

1. You are doing great! Just keep it up but you can do better.
2. Never Quit!
3. Do what you think is right, but think more than 10x.
4. Consult friends, family or someone you feel comfortable. I can be a good friend too :)
5. Be happy! You deserve it.
6. Build up your core strength.
7. Love yourself.
8. Take good care of your health
9. Keep it up! Keep going! You'll make it good someday.
10. Pray! Don't stop praying with your heart.

:)

Effective Ways to Reduce Stress

We are aware that to sip tea, get on a foot spa or pedicure, as well as indulge in whole body massaging will be able to do wonders for the stressed body. Here are some things you'll be able to use in order to drop the levels of stress:


  1. Acupressure - using massage in certain target points around the body at the surface of your skin, helping to relieve tension and stress. At some time of my life when I've got some headache i am massaging the area where my head is hurting and my head feels calmer.
  2. Lavender, Mango or Lemon - sniffing these three would make you feel a lot more relieve. They are containing linalool altering the brain chemistry as well as lowering stress levels.
  3. Gum - to chew gum can raise your alertness, it quells your anxiety, as well as lower the stress level. Might as well opt to the sugar free gum.
  4. A quiet period - you need to sit quietly in an area and then meditate. Relax a bit your shoulder and your arms. Start with the toes,  relax every muscles at every turn, breath slowly then deeply. You need to be sure that you have at least 5 minutes daily to do this.

Treasure Quality Time with your Family

Money surely will not buy love, however can money buy you happiness? There's a global survey that say's more than 140,000 people across 130 nations that vote yes as well as no. Your big paycheck  will not encourage your daily pleasures. All over the world, people who enjoys life are strongly linked to psychological prosperity and not the financial aspects.

Below are some of tips to juggle different time plan and to spend time with your family:



  • Make a time during the night for your family - There's a simple solution and will create a memory that will last forever. Even if its only watching movie, eat pizza, play an online game or family walking at night will design some time together. Talk with one another and relax. There might be some surprising things that you'll learn from your children.
  • Enjoy as well as get in touch with the friends of your child - Letting your child's friends visit in your area will give you an insight of the interests as well as the things that inspires your child and understand the group that he or she associates with. You  must not forget there are experts that playing time as well as social interaction is excellent for development of children.
  • Your children must decide his or her pastime habits - there are many parents who sign up for their children's activities and the child is not really interested in that activity at all, so they face some conflicts then struggle in the end. There's another problem if your kid constantly plead for a certain activity and suddenly he/she will quit, however a child  even in a young age will develop interests as well as dreams they'll want in the future.
  • Be sure on the participation if your making choices - there are lots of activities that emphasize additional time and practice demands in this world's competitiveness. Being a parent you need to choose if a specific activity will be appropriate to your own child. There are alternatives with a time pressed family, signing up children a selected season versus the recreation association, the pee wee cheerleading squad rather than the all year round team.
  • Decide the activity that your child will participate into - when your child told you that there's an activity he/she though is fun, make sure you don't commit her/him in one whole year. It might not only present a conflict afterwards, but also infringe his or her friends to participate too. If the child really love it, you might as well search something about it soon.

The Time Savers for Kitchen Chores


Organizing the Kitchen


1. Group the activities taking place in your kitchen. Place every baking equipments at a certain place, every cooking equipments in another area. It makes all pulling and placing of the baking and cooking equipments easier.

2. You need to finish your day with a clean sink at the kitchen. You need to wash the dishes before you sleep.

3. The grease cutter or the sponge really is an excellent way in spreading germs. Make use of a paper towel, throw them after you clean every areas in order to stop any contamination.

4. In order to clean a burned pan, put some soap as well as water. You will boil it, and then the water be liquify at the pan. The food in the burned pan will remove easily .  

5. Place some lime or lemon pieces in the garbage can in quite a while to have a fresh natural smell. In order to refresh your garbage can might as well sprinkle a tablespoon of soda at the drain. Then drop 2 cubes of ice and then turn that. Run some hot water in 10-15 minutes before the disposal works.

The Excellent Way on How to Clean the Range or Extractor Hood


1. Shut down the hoods power ( you won't accidentally open that fan when you are cleaning); transfer the filters as instructed in the range manual.


2. Clean the metal opening filter at your sink, or just directed. Substitute the charcoal filter ( it helps in reducing odors; your manual will be telling you if charcoal filter is around.)

3. Wash the surface, which includes the fan blade as well as the range's control panel, by a sponge or grease cleaner. Wash lightly with wet cloth; let it dry.

4. Lastly, clean the bulb (when displayed) of a wet cloth, which is warm then let it dry. Substitute the filter metal then bring back the power.


 Versus the,

It's Excellent Enough for Range Hood

1. You are not aware where is the range manual, as well as the circuit breaker that range hood is connected to? You might as well save this range hood cleaning later. Remove those large filter (its the portion that becomes the gunkiest) then swish at the sink full of warm water as well as soap. Wash and then let it dry.

2. Soak a dry cloth and/or sponge in a soapy solution then wash the surface outside.

3. Wash all filters and outside things once more by wiping it of a sponge or cloth in a clear water. When it's really dry, replace it of the mesh filter.



What's the Meaning of Success?


Success is a term that can be compared to so many things. It can be modern lifestyle, being socially inclined or financially well off. Many people immediately visualize a picture of large bank accounts, big houses, and expensive type of cars. Well, it's really an aspect of success. However being successful means a lot, lot more. There are also people who think that being successful refers to have a good life with their family, being at ease or comfortable with your feelings, happy at home and being love by family, friends, and acquaintances.



However, what is the common factor in all these? Well they involve feelings. The feelings are comprised of anxiety, free from worries, self respect, peace of mind, love, joy, happiness, and being positive.

A successful life would not only mean to attain material, monetary and/or financial plans but to also have the above mentioned feelings. The generation nowadays made the term success similar to the tangible things or materials that seem to forgot one last thing: the core of being successful is that feeling of positivity that comes with achievement and accomplishment. Success in terms of lifestyle is not only a matter of "Mom get me an IPod next week, I am the only one left in the class without it" It must be for long term happiness with your family, yourself and true friends too.

Simple lifestyle yet it can be satisfying in the long run. Here are some success for some, just take a look:


For a child, it means be able to get an award after a hard work of first letter writing, to shoot his basketball in the ring, getting friends who stays behind every time, family bonding time, etc.

A teenager, success means an award for excellence in academics or sports she or he belongs, being greeted by his or her crush a Happy Birthday, a party held by his or her family for a simple achievement done and a lot more.

While an adult, can be a love interest for years answered at last, graduated in college with flying colors or simply to graduate with your family by your side then eat in a restaurant or favorite  food booth to reminisce the days as well as to get a work afterwards to have his or her family next time.

Then as a family, parents love to define success after raising their child to be a good citizen of the nation as well as disciplined in terms of time management, goals and listening to their reprimands even if they are big enough and most of the adults do not listen anymore.